Do i miss the single life? No. Im happy and content and cannot imagine being in a different situation than i am now, and i wouldn't want to be. Will have been with paul 4 years in september, moved into a house together a month ago and i can only see my future with him in it. Used to meet up with my girl friends at least once a week for bottle of wine etc and that was fine, and i needed that time to keep something for myself, seperate from paul, altho now ive moved away i don't get the chance as much. Paul has his lads nights and i stay out the way - altho i dont need too, im welcome to stay and socialise (altho paul probably only says that and doesnt actually mean it ) but i know he needs his space too, and i encourage him to contact his mates when he's being lazy and can't be assed to do something with them. Relationships aren't a walk in the park, you gotta work at it together if you want it to last, it involves trust, compromise and understanding. oh and paul if you read this it's september 23RD!!!!! don't forget