Burntalive, its okay mate, i know i am/have been a dick on here, but thats just me, one minute im the nicest guy youll ever meet the next minute im seething to kill someone... but you know where iam if you need someone with similar life experiences to talk to... Trig i replied saying bullshite to your comment, but because im on post review it didnt get accepted ( i dont think ) peewee pm'd me to say that he thinks i got the wrong end of the stick, basically your reply basically said to me ' only people who are weak use the excuse of being abused in younger life to be abusive to others in older life ' but was just a misunderstanding. I do have a very eventful life and have as you found out when you shouldnt when that pm was posted up, i do keep some secrets but shite happens and maybe some of you who usually jump aboard the train can see why i get mixed emotions and behave the way i do sometimes, this doesnt mean me crashing cars or whatever is all bullshite and attention seeking, my focus did get mashed up and she did mash up someone elses car 5 weeks later, things like that, ill just let you guys get on with it to be honest, one thing ive noticed with peewee and i said in similar words, he struck me as a uni boy living at home with mummy and daddy giving him everything he ever wanted/needed, little did i know he was a grown man of nearly double my age with kids and in a respectable job. Just goes to show you should never judge a book by its cover, you never know whats under the cover and jumping aboard the pisstaking train is not always the best way to go, sometimes its best to saying nothing at all.