..... Just quit my job Couldnt handle the stress every day i have to go throu and torwards the end the money wasnt worth the stress as it bottled up inside of me all day long and i ended up takin it out on mates and more importantly my girl and i dnt wanna be like that any more !

 

Sucks cause this now means im not makin any money, gonna go out this week and look for a job but im doubtin i can find somewhere where i can jump straight in and be make the needed 500 quid a week (before tax) or 330 a week (after tax). I dunno what my chances of that are like as ive only ever had one job.

 

Gonna try my abousle hardest to make the 2 grand i need for the engine, givin giels 2k, mums loanin me 2k, so that keaves 2k to make my october and find a job. Ill work 20 hours a day if i have to just to make 100

 

Probally shot myself in the foot this time big time but i dont care, cant do a job that i dont enjoy and leaves me at the end of a day like a firework waitin to go off at anyone

 

Harvez

What was your job?

Instaltion Enginerre

shouldnt u really think twice about this engine now mate? i think having £6K in ur bank, rather then £6K in ur car would be wiser, especially in this situation. the engine can wait until u've got another job sorted surely?

that sucks mate, wat engine u buyin?? look on the bright side, there is jobs out there an u obviously want one bad enough so youll find something, even if it aint what you want for the long term. an at least u not got the pressures which where again, obviously getting to you. hope your ok and find something as soon as!!

If you wern't happy then good for you . I would have tried to have something lined up first . It sure takes some balls to just up and quit without anything to go to but if your willing to hard graf i am sure you'll find something soon enough mate

Probally shot myself in the foot

thats an understatement aint it?

 

if you're an engineer you'll walk into another job wont ya?

 

sorry, i'd rather be stressed and have money, just a case of learning to leave the stress at work

What was so stressful about it? what did you install?

 

if you dont mind me asking

sorry, i'd rather be stressed and have money, just a case of learning to leave the stress at work

What would you do if you worked with your dad ? and you cant leave stress at work when you live wiv the person you work wiv ?

 

I installed, doors, windows, curtain wall frames, panels .

 

I kno i should of lined up a job before quitin but its somethin thats been gettin to me more and more till the point i cant take it no more .

 

Thanx for all replys feelin real low atm

what qualifications u got mate? cant u get another fitting job with them??

What would you do if you worked with your dad ? and you cant leave stress at work when you live wiv the person you work wiv ?

aint that made ya home life shite now too?

 

 

you're a window fitter? blimey, round here you'd get work tomoz

What would you do if you worked with your dad ? and you cant leave stress at work when you live wiv the person you work wiv ?

I work with my Dad, he gets on my tits at time, but so does everyone.

 

You just have to forget about it. (and do as you told )

i just pretty much split up with my girlfriend of 3 years, touche

Hope u get a new job sorted mate

Take today for example -

My Job;

Bump all glass up to him to stick on window

Roll In Glass usin new impossible gasket X12 Windows

 

His;

Put glass into hole (Pee easy and effertless after bein lifted up to him)

Roll in Glass usin new impossible gasket X12 Windows

 

My Money Earned ;

65 Quid on day rate

 

His money earned ;

125quid on day rate

 

That dont bother me its the fact he got in the van after and said you idiot if thats the LST time u leve me to roll in the windows - thinkin to myself here, hang on you Whacker ive done twice as many windows as you WIVOUT your help and for HALF the amount you get paid for !! and WIVOUT moanin one bit. then he starts going on and on all the way home and starts takin it out on mother.

I was startin to turn into the T*at by takin it out on my gf, thought i dont wanna lose her cause she means the most in my life to me so im gonna stop my job. i didnt quit just on todays basis its all been buildin up for ages. He has a REAL short temper, he cant control his temper and he never 'talks' to me its always shoutin and swearin and givin me the shite jobs. I work just as hard as him if not harder but get paid half as much and get treated and talked to like shite....

Am i in the wrong i dunno but he is gettin to much !

 

Let me kno if you think im the one who needs to sort himself out

sounds like my auld man, i cud never work with him!